Friday, November 1, 2013

Thanks-For giving

According to the Coalition on Homelessness and Housing in Ohio, over 13,000 people are considered homeless.  More surprisingly, over 5000 of these had families with children.  Each and every year, more and more are being added to the ranks and sadly increasing at a rate of nearly 5% or more.  Many, through no fault of their own, are thrown into these ranks by either unfortunate circumstance or unforeseen elements.  I am greatly distressed by this fact and that it is children who suffer the greatest.  They are the lost ones, the innocent who need a chance to live out their lives – to dream – to hope – and to care.

I volunteer each year on Make a Difference Day at a picnic held for the local homeless at Goodale Park here in Columbus, Ohio.  To say that I am moved by the site of these people is an understatement.  I begin to realize just how interconnected we are and that our actions can have a profound impact on the lives of others.  By talking with us and sharing their experiences, we come to know about their situation and of how they became homeless.  It is the rich stories they tell and of how they continue to struggle with addiction, nervousness and anxiety.
For many of the children, however, the stories are far more disturbing.  I cannot imagine what it would be like, especially in the formative years, to have your foundation stripped from beneath your feet.  Not to have a home to go to, food to eat or even clothing for that cold winter night must seem like an insurmountable hill for many of them to climb.  A child needs that strength and stability that only a family can provide in order to grow and become that person God intended.  I look into their eyes on this day and I wonder how I would react in such a moment.  Would I be as strong and steely eyed as they are or would I fold to the pressures of the environment around me.  The answer bothers me because I tend to shy away from my problems and find myself hiding from society when the world looks and acts particularly frightening and unforgiveable. 
I recall how my mother was so welcoming to those less fortunate and that I should, as my duty as a human being, let everyone into my heart.  I found myself outside my comfort zone on this particular day and was apprehensive.  I was particularly taken aback by a young woman who approached us and told us about living in a shelter and having no shoes to wear for her children.  My inhibition began to melt away as all I could think about was how blessed I was to have such a loving and caring base of friends and family to fall back on.  I shed a tear.  I remembered also that Jesus was homeless and depended on the kindness of strangers and of His asking for us to give of ourselves to those who need it most.
By opening up and by just listening, I begin to understand that these people and their children are no different than the rest of us.  They share the same hopes and dreams for their families.  I recall what Blessed Pope John Paul II once said, that “dialogue leads to a recognition of diversity and opens the mind to the mutual acceptance and genuine collaboration demanded by the human family's basic vocation to unity.”
They seek that common thread that we seek, to be together in society and to be recognized, to be wanted, to be cared about and to be loved.  God is all around us, He sees us in our best and worst moments.  He is watching and waiting for us to make the first move.  It is our responsibility as citizens of this planet to give to those who need it most and to bring His message to everyone within the sound of our voice. 
At the end of this day and every day, the response I want to hear from those families is “thanks for giving”.  I hope I have touched a life and brought a little happiness into the eyes of that child staring back at me, waiting for me to give them a hug and acknowledging that they were important to someone - someone like me, someone like the countless people helping today, someone like God.
May the Lord watch over them and keep them safe, may they walk in His serenity and light, may they have many sweet dreams and may His peace be with them, always.

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